Life style and possibilities

People and things can change
That's something I've always heard and never believes
Then it was something I said and instilled for people to believe and strive for.
And now I know its something that can be done with right methods and mindset. To be able change anything about yourself or any situation there is ways to do it but most importantly there are two things you have to do.
1. Read or theory - learn about it or study it any way you can , try and grasp concepts about it and whole workings of it that you can understand. Try if you can get points of view , mote specifically your perspective and then outside one without any sorta personal attachment to it.
2. Do something about it or practical -
You must physical/mentally/emotional have to start implementing those changes , have that motivation to go and do something about it. If you do you will get results. Won't necessarily be quick immediate changes but progress is progress none the less.

These are effectively ways to change your whole lifestyle if you will it.
I'm gonna add more to this with updates much because I wanna be able to look back at this when I need it or to find tips. But this will be updated because stuff to do this is far top much to do in one sitting of typing
Until next update :).

24/11/11 - update 1

So last time i spoke mentioned about how possible to change and touched on theory and practical.
first of all think best way to start is to look at yourself first and how you are in relationship to aspect your trying to improve or adapt to.
so look at three things
1. how you are currently doing at it (both your perception/your view of how you are and what you actually may be if you think it differ's)
2. where you want to be or how capable you wanna be in that area
3. what is different between these two, your limiting beliefs/obstacles that at this moment prevent from going further in this area.

first step is always admitting the problem or realising you yourself are doing something wrong and preventing yourself from progressing, so review your self before moving on to further steps though sometimes skipping can give you some insight to how to review yourself. as said in NLP - seek to understand and then to be understood.
until next update

Communication discord n chance meetings

Tell you fellow bloggers and universe general. It's so weird how can communicate simple things in only couple words or even more simple gestures.
Even stranger in today's society how you can have so much communication via texts, Facebook or face to face and then have sudden dead zone or quiet drop off where got no contact at all.
Though you can then have random meetings with long lost friends or of course modern wrong text message sent to you by someone :p.

Suppose it's funny how that can change in blink of an eye or in sudden heartbeat. There is just that moment , a single instant where whole things can change , one word , one action , one beat and everything can be twisted into new shape or reality.
I've said that to many people but still find it hard to believe myself.
Live , love and laugh. Smart things to remember because life is game and we all be players on this stage , let's see what we can win out of it. :)

party times and day after

Was a great 80's party last night hosted by ace friend of mine, she is pretty awesome for making it possible, for games of twister, fact introduced to some great people and i kept my promises to all people that night.

drunken twister , ethel the pig and ring of fire are best games to play ever.
and if you know a couple of magic tricks makes it all more special.

day after, not too bad had pretty awesome day for fact didn't get home till 5:00am i was fantastic though feeling effects, now.

if i can take anything away from last night, stuff is possible just have to try, fun can be had no matter if go out with group of twenty or group of five.

Life is mystery to all, all its twists and turns in so many areas. but my life is pretty Ace.

peace to all

Love learning social dynamics and attraction

Couple people ask me how i am so social or why i study stuff logical like what attracts people etc etc

so simple post to those who find it, i love people generally i do gives me awesome mood knowing and learning things about people and improving my social circle, so i do this by talking to others, becoming friends or at least risking a chat, i study attraction sorta stuff to try improve my romantic life because im awkward when comes to that, i wasnt always this out going and this well i suppose brilliant when younger so im trying to improve it now by improving all relationships, friendship, brother hood, love life and all that.

I dont do this to be a player or manipulative or what have you, if you think that clearly dont know me.
I love helping others thru any issues or problems they have and love fact people can always just chat to me if they want no better feeling.

So im gonna carry on being who i am and learn these things and maybe ill be lucky and get the girl for once instead of being wingmen to male and female friends but if not i make a lot of ace friends who seem to wanna hang out and talk and drink with me.
Thats best feeling i can have and know will stay with me.

Peace out Bloggers :D

challenege to update

Been told to update my blog, thought not sure how or by what means,

whether this new post, different layout or what not, ill find out soon enough ;)

but reckon this post for suggestions or improvements would be good like an improv list :D

Goals and challenges

So today started off lazy but decided to get up and sort thru stuff.

so listened to couple of improvement lecture sessions and made couple of notes, decided to go out and put of bit of practice. as they say you should do 1 hour theory and 2 hours practice if you wanna implement into your life style but since im bit out of the game decided to warm up by being direct and telling someone they looked good and put myself out of comfort zone a bit , so i can really get out of my anxious and fearful self.
after that sorta went well if you define it by couldn't achieve your goal due to little bit of fear and no one able to practice with, but i think i made a step in right direction.

I think i need to really sit down with myself or one of my trusted mates and really talk about what i want or where i wanna go, maybe its time to be a little selfish if only to meet my own standards or goals.

this is a huge challenge for me, think hardest thing ive done in ages but needs to be done because i wanted change and best way for opportunity to knock is to build a door.

Life journey n goals

So been back to
Work now for couple of shifts , a training day and little bit of social stuff and chats with very wise people and some other mental cases but overall brilliant.

Something I have to take away is I have to love myself above all, I am a loving person but very rarely give to myself I give more out so I have to take step back n look at myself a bit more.

I think best way to do it is carry on as I am and live life bit more , carry on working / acting / socialising and etc etc. My life should be more about me and what I wanna achieve , my life my goals everything else like money and love and career and education are bonuses.

I say that but same time I'm not exactly sure what my purpose is , what do I wanna achieve , how do I wanna come across and where am I going ?

All yet to be decided or discovered by myself but I'll get there eventually may just take awhile but I'm young so it's allowed with time to spare at the moment.

Love all

Motivation, determination and practice to maziumazation

First of all yes i made up last word but i felt like doing tion words for title.

so yes been crazy couple of weeks, been ups n downs and possible every emotional state possible and i think thats probably a good thing to have when you have week off, do stuff , go through cash and emotions and then head back into a mixed routine best way for my week off to round off to i suppose.

Main reason im posting

well mainly to stay creative and keep outta of my head while at same time not doing so many fb rants etc.

but i wanna post this and people to follow and keep me motivated in what im doing, i said little while ago on here, on facebook and also to few people that I AM CHANGING MY LIFESTLE, and i still am but at same time feel like slipping again so here is what i am asking if you reading this

1. comment with thoughts ideas or anything at all

2. keep me motivated or check that im doing it (other wise i wont)

3. Believe... weird one i know but so many people including people i meet once believe in me for some reason so i ask that you all still do i must be doing something right for this to happen , so keep on doing it so it can only get better

Thanks all, ill be posting more soon and hopefully become better as possibly get

night all

This is so going in my blog XD

Well training as service champion been pretty dam good so far had great feedback and already improving. Considering it's 2 days course apparently I've been told I'm on day 3.5 advance level. Haha awesome
Can't wait to go to drama tonight I think and then prepare for some life changing Wednesday but first let's get home and do some press ups and mental mindset changes ;)

Update two
So finished my service champion training love it XD. Can't wait to get started and not sure whether to go to drama or not. Thinking I might keep energy going and go to it but I'll see how I do first. :).

Update three
Going to have to miss drama :( gutted 2nd week on run now dam training day actually it's stupid trains fault for taking so long. Oh well relax tonight the. I guess and prepare for future.

Updated news gossip and life changes

Well been a while since I've updated so I'll think quick
Summary is needed.
Well life is getting back to being awesome had brief down period which wasn't good at all
Glad I had mates their to support me.
Training day was epic
Then lipa auditions , nights out and of course new sounds and shapes all in the air been mental
But this is quick
Summary I'll give full details tomorrow lol XD

New Life style change

So Yesterday i decided once again to change my life and i seriously mean it this time, I....AM....CHANGING..... MY LIFE. I am gonna start practicing the skills and techniques im trying to learn, ive read so much but not doing enough practice into it as i should be, okay when i can i try to but im not gonna learn unless i full commit to it.

I dont care how much i have to spend, how much time i have to commit to it, how tired i am after days work or if i keep going i haven't got enough time, i will instill this mindset of committing to this new style and beliefs to change my life otherwise im gonna be who i am right now and thats pretty awesome but i can be so much better, and i mean so much better.

so im gonna read , watch and learn everything i can do improve myself, confidence wise, physically, vocally and so on and so forth. I will become so much more because i deserve it like anyone else should and could.

Joey

Saturday 24th september

Woah been a pretty hectic week, i've had my ups and my downs. but i have done so much, gained so much experience in range of areas.

got to hang out with my best mate and bro in arms and chatted to some awesome people, that i think the skills and stuff i do is really helping me personally to develop as myself but as the me i always wanted to be.

i think i've got long way to go, though these nights outs and shows/workshops i perform in and do help me so much, but at least i've finally gotten a start on it :)

new books and dvds

Got to hanng out with mates other day and got some dvds and books via different paths :D

shall entertain for while and got to learn abit about life and people, what i like about my friends and social times if that we makes mistakes but we grow from it, i shall go from strength to strength cant wait till after xmas and new year to see how far i truly grow :)

New times and Jennys 18th weekend stuff

Hey People

so friday was epic, i got to suit up and be awesome with some great people and got to be wingman to one hell of a guy and danced with loads of ace people ;). but more on that later or if you see me ask :D

weekend got to chat to the birthday girl and her bf again haha, apparently they enjoyed night and loved the photos. got to speak to two certain lovely girls was great there and worked hard all weekend saturday and sunday even with lack of sleep and only four staff on each day but we managed and we had fun and giggles and lots of rants.

Im seem to be growing a lot recently and its been cool and scary i had my down moments but they seem to be getting less and less. i seem to fall but soar even higher and higher and i plan to continue to do so.
Lets rock this boo yeah ;)

Intro Awesome

Hey okay so this is first post of my blog

so this is usually to spread ideas, bit of fun and lots of other positive things haha.
I'm doing this because of spark from an old friend of mine and also from How I met mother due to barney stingson.

so hoping to do this so i can keep positive and have fun basically :D

so boom here we go its gonna be legen.....wait for it.....DARY ;) oh yeah