Visualize, Achieve & Dream - Road To Fulfillment

I started this post with this image/quote to emphasis the importance of Goals/Dreams and that it is advice I should listen to really, It's never too late to start afresh or pursue something new and I am only young and I should stop stressing but that's part of who I am , I over-think everything, I put myself down far too often and I keep repeating mistakes that sabotage myself. But that is part of who I am, I need to stop trying to be someone who I am not and find who I am.

My last post I talked about motivation and beliefs , My ace bro for life gave me another piece of advice I need to follow

"Do things for yourself."

That's so simple but everyone seems to forget it so easily, everyone finds it so easy to be someone else or try to be someone else just for one thing or another. And PEOPLE NEED TO STOP DOING THAT,  do stuff that makes you happy, do things that help you move forward, you do not need to seek approval from everyone, while it is nice, you do not need it. 

You need no one's approval but your own. 

Your own life, lifestyle, your own word where you are the hero of your story , everyone in it is only a side character....Okay maybe every now and then you have a team member you want by your side for battles you encounter or for a special event and maybe you may even encounter a love interest the hardest uphill battle of all.

But you must always be who you are, even if you are not sure who you are deep down, find out and discover it because you can not make others happy if you are not happy yourself. 

So I suggest you become a person who sets a goal/dream and visualize it , when you visualize it , you help it become a reality , if you visualize how you are gonna achieve it and visualize achieving it , you will achieve it for definite . 

"Watch your thoughts, for they become words. Watch your words, for they become actions. Watch your actions, for they become habits. Watch your habits, for they become your character. Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny."

This is a double edged sword for if you fall into negative or bad thoughts or of course if your me and over-think everything , you set yourself up for self-fulling prophecy of failure. But if you get the right mind-set and strive to achieve all your goals and dreams even to some degree , you set yourself up for so much more, it is all about mind over matter.

I am not gonna lie people, I am going through motions because of so much, some good , some bad , some rather confusing , but when I initially thought of this and started writing in my personal book this was one quote that came back to me after so long :

Now! This is it! Now is the time to choose! Die and be free of pain or live and fight your sorrow! Now is the time to shape your stories! Your fate is in your hands!  - Auron Final Fantasy X

And it is so true , we can either give up and stay content with what we have now whether be good or bad or we can choose to start another dream , another fight and move onwards, everyone needs personal time to review themselves and think about what they want and where they wanna go.
That what am I doing now, I may be being down on myself now but I blame no one but myself, everything that has happened in my life until now, I am the one who created my thoughts, the one who did my actions and they became my habits , my character and my destiny.

I am choosing to change that , to start a new vision, a new dream and become more then what I am now, you may think much of me now or possibly think nothing of me but I am going to become so much more and thats a fight worth fighting for. 

 Peace/love to you all from your man in the hat
Joseph Reynolds