Time for Change

Hey again people

First of all I feel I should be proud just had a little check/ chat with people and realised how many view's my blog is getting so thanks for looking and reading I hope this helps motivate and inspire others as I aim to try and do, I write so I can look back and read my past thoughts and goals and help myself move forward to finding a better me and fulfilling any goals I set. And I hope this does the same for others so you feel like you yourself can make your own changes in life and make a bigger impact on your goals or on others to help them progress through life and achieve theirs depending on why your reading or what you hope to gain from reading.

Anyway to my point of my post today.
I am writing today to first of all to make sure I keep writing otherwise once again I will a good thing behind when it's so useful to me for so many reasons that I may or may not list, I probably will at some point keep an eye out for them. Secondly I think this is time for me to make some more changes or discoveries in my own life and life style, I mean I hear a lot from people that I am "A NICE GUY" but..... is that all their is to what people see to me , don't get me wrong that's a lovely thing for people to say and brilliant to hear from majority of my huge net circles of friends and their are many different ways people have phrased it:
"You are generally an amazing guy" - Ryan my bro. <3
"Your amazing Joe" - Variety of people
"Your one of the nicest and genuine guys I've ever met" - Stacey and others (But I remember this one from Stacey)
"Your amazing Hun" - Charley
"Love you my dear Joe, you're an ace person, truly top notch and i hope you  stay my friend for many good years!" - Rachel
" No matter what happens mate , I will stand with you till the end even if we went into battle I'd be at your side and shout your battle cry even if we decided it last minute to be 'a pizza hut, a pizza hut, tuckey fried chicken and a pizza hut." - Luke my bro. <3 ( sorry I couldn't remember actually what you said but it still means a lot to me)
" your a really lovely guy and I think in about three years time you'd ve my perfect guy " - Britta ( there was much more.to.this lovely message but sadly couldn't find it but means a lot to have heard that )
" You are truly my guru" - Jenny
" I'm really glad to have met you " & " your a lovely guy" - Laura
"Your a genuinely nice and honest guy, so genuine and honest that it scares me a little." - Tom L [ :') this still makes me giggle a bit ]

I could go on and on but these are the ones that stood out to me and one's I remember these are the things that make me want to be who I am and so much more. I am told that I am a nice guy but I wish to be that and more, I wish to be what you guys have said and so much more, I wanna be that guy who you know is always their no matter how far apart we are or how long its been since I've last seen you.
I wanna be that man who is approachable and you know you can talk about anything about easily and freely, and maybe I can solve your problems or maybe I will at least be an ear to listen, a shoulder to lean on and some wise advice to give you to help you along.
I wish to be that man and so much more and I feel that I can achieve that and all so much more, but I cannot be that guy just yet I can only be for I am at this very moment , I need to follow my friends advice which was
"You need to some time for yourself and live for yourself and no one else."
I need to do somethings for myself and myself only, I need to take time for my own choices and not care what others think or care. Now anyone reading this I don't mean do what you want and then not listen to others are saying for some stuff you may do may be the wrong choice at moment wise man once said " Don't act impulsively on your emotions" or as i just thought  of Don't let your mind control you or your heart rule you ( I feel rather impressed with that sentence :D )

But do go out and do stuff for yourself and don't stress so much about any work/social nit picky politics, Like today for example I had a busy day at work so when my shift was over, I didn't overly stress that I could stay, I offered because I wanted to and then once turned down, grab some food and sat down with a friend for catch up, then bought some new pens and pad so I could write a little and start some more little fun projects and finally decided to go to improv workshop at mello mello because these are all things I wanted to do for me because it made me feel good and happy. I didn't worry that work was busy and they could probably need a spare pair of hands or about any minor fiance because I didn't have any other immediate bills or money troubles at this moment in time so I could afford to buy couple of small things and Finally thought doing something silly and fun would do me some good instead of just going home and sitting about or sleeping before bedtime .

So I am going to try and Live for myself for a bit and if you having rough couple of days or having a rough patch yourself, I recommend trying it, just do stuff for yourself, don't go overboard and ignore friends or family but just make time for yourself to have some peace and thought, to just sit down and perhaps do nothing or maybe your like me and want to do something but do something that you want to do because it make you happy or makes you feel productive :).

This moment in time, I am going to try and watch couple of things that I have been recommend by many people and I am especially going to try and do some writing (personal, creative, comedy all types really, but trying to focus on personal bit more) , I am going to try and get more in shape because I wanna be more productive physically, I am going to go back to some courses I started ages ago and pick them up again and improve my mind and skill set.
I know this won't be an easy journey or task to accomplish and I don't think I will be able to discover who I am really am , who is the real joseph reynolds, I am me now but only so much of the me I could achieve to be, I don't think I will know the answer a year from now, or 5 years or possibly 10 years, I could know but I don't know now so I am going to start trying to from now onwards.
So one thing I will ask this is for both me and you readers, if you see me with pad and pend ,
Don't ignore me or feel that I need to be left in peace.
Come and join me, start a conversation and have a chat, hell ask what I am writing about, I find good company and chats can usually be more creative and inspirational instead of loads of alone time to write.
So Live life and write, chat, enjoy the experience of the world and all it's events and happenings , life is too short for regrets and we never have enough time anyway, so carpe diem and seize the day while you can.
Keep me motivated guys and I will try to do the same for you
Peace and much love guys
Joseph Reynolds - Your guy in the hat

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Feel free to comment on this post, on facebook link or reply on twitter, I am always looking for tips and advice and motivation so it all good feedback :D